does the winner really take it all?

They often tell us that when you lose something, it gives you an oppurtunity to gain something better.

Who ever said that was a fool.

When we lose, we lose. And when we win, it is because we've earned it. When we win, we get everything. And when we lose, we are left with nothing.

I, hereby today declare myself: a loser. I am a loser for not wining the game, I am a loser for not getting everything I wanted, and I am a loser for convincing myself that what they said could be true, that my loss was for the sake of the better gains to come.

Sometimes, we dont gain anything better. Sometimes we just lose. And the proper thing to do is to take it. The proper thing to do is to cry, to suffer the pain to its fullest, to pity ourselves and to drown our souls in tears of misery.

Sometimes, we just have to deal with the fact that we deserve no better, and let go of the failure.
Sometimes, we just have to hear that this is life, and life IS unfair.
Sometimes, we just have to grow up, and ....

and I dont know what. But when I do, I will have let it go already. And when I do, I will become a winner. So when I do, I will find happiness, and this time I will know how to never let go of it again.